It's Not You, It's You Now.

I remember way back when when I liked someone, I had made a comment that if you don't have time, you must make time. It was in reference to our efforts trying to get together and hang out with other friends in general.

The animosity I received for that use of a line I heard from the douchey-french-guy in the Matrix: Reloaded could have been measured in dump trucks. Recently though, I saw that same person use the original formation of that idiom.

All that is to simply serve as a lesson to you and me that it's not always what you say, it's just if somebody likes you, or not. Or, if you're British, or good looking. Those two will probably help you.